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Hi, I’m maria hilaris

Divorce is one of life’s most challenging experiences. I know how overwhelming, confusing, and isolating it can feel. That’s why I created The Divorce Space: to provide a compassionate, empowering place where you can reclaim your voice, understand your options, and take confident steps forward in your life.

Before becoming a certified divorce coach, I worked as a family law attorney, helping clients navigate the complexities of divorce. Through that work, I saw how much strength, courage, and resilience people bring to this process. I also saw how deeply they benefit from having emotional and practical support alongside the legal guidance. I founded The Divorce Space to bridge that gap, offering a space that combines clarity, compassion, and a forward-focused approach to healing and rebuilding.

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My Approach

As both a coach and attorney, I bridge the gap between emotional support and practical strategy. While I do not act as your lawyer or give legal advice when I’m your coach, I use my background in family law to help you understand the process, feel prepared, and make informed choices that feel right for you.

In our work together, you’ll find:

  • A safe, compassionate space to process emotions and gain clarity

  • Structured support to navigate the many decisions of divorce

  • Guidance to communicate effectively and move forward with confidence

  • Empowerment to rebuild your sense of self and create your next chapter


Education

The Catholic University Columbus School of Law, J.D., 2022

The Catholic University, B.A., 2019, cum laude

training & Certification

Bar Admission: Maryland

CDC Certified Divorce Coach®

Rita Rosenkrantz Basic Family Law Training

Introductory Interdisciplinary Collaborative Practice Training

Best Interest Attorney Training

Awards

Maryland Rising Stars Super Lawyers - 2024, 2025, 2026

Lawyers of Distinction Recognizing Excellence in Family and Divorce Law - 2023, 2024, 2025

Top Rated Lawyers in Maryland - 2024

Top Attorneys in Maryland – the American Registry - 2024